Emike’s Interview.
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When the AprilCentaur Network sat down with Emike in an engaging and light-hearted conversation, she introduced herself as a lively young woman from Edo State who recently completed her studies in sociology at the University of Ibadan.
As the eldest of three children, including two brothers, Emike shared intriguing insights into her vibrant personality and the experiences that shaped her person.
When prodded to speak on herself, Emike expressed her natural curiosity and adventurous spirit, describing her approach to life as carefree and affectionate.
She emphasised the power of her personality, stating that her soul wields might like no other and a unique ability to spread love to those around her.
Her fascination with people’s motivations drove her to pursue sociology.
And the interviewer, on hearing this, swallowed an open can of malt and queried Emike on how her childhood carved the present version of her.
Emike settled with a laugh and fondly reminisced about her growing up in Benin, Edo State, dragging attention to its rich cultural heritage and dignified atmosphere.
She expressed gratitude for sprouting among open-minded individuals who welcomed her inquisitive nature and allowed her to freely explore and express herself without judgment.
In her words, “They saw what I was and did not try to cover it.”
And because the interviewer also shared in Emike’s natural curiosity, he sonorously cleared his throat and asked how her parents’ beliefs and personalities affected the person she became.
Emike, who was always in a spirit to reply(unless it involved more private questions), shared how her father, an IT specialist for an oil company, was often absent during her early years. But through all her time with his easygoing nature, she inherited from him a tremendous sense of humour.
If you were expecting a joke like the interviewer was, Emike did not crack one.
But when relating to her mother, she recognised her mum's remarkable strength, which she believes has been passed down to her. She explained that she is usually aware of the stereotypical fact that every mom is strong but still said, “My mum is strong.”
The interviewer, in awe of family conversations, asked what role her siblings played in her self-actualisation.
Delving into this topic, Emike acknowledged the strong will she observed to be present in boys and how being the eldest shaped her willingness to become their leader.
She embraced the responsibility of prioritising others in decision-making, a trait that has extended to her writing, where she feels a deep sense of accountability towards her characters.
When discussing her writing process, Emike revealed that some of her stories emerged from dreams, which adds an enchanting dimension to her creative work.
So if you loved the Egusi Base, thank God for a successful dream.
Barring the light-heartedness of the situation, Emike tightened her fists and spoke of a teacher named Mrs Ruth, who aided her vision when she was 10.
It was in an English class the first time she wrote a poem titled “the journey.” Her teacher invited Emike to the office, and she was surprised when Mrs Ruth held her by the shoulders and shouted, “This writing is bigger than your age.”
If you allow me to digress, this proposes the impact recognition can play in the life of a creative.
Seeing that she was seen, Emike started writing everything.
If you’re curious about Emike’s transformative experience and how it brought her closer to her purpose, don’t miss the podcast below.
Prepare to be captivated by Emike’s infectious enthusiasm and be left with a smile that mirrors our own.
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